sassywho's Bookmarks About "men"

If men wrote advice columns

lmao

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 funny · men

http://aboutyourbreakup.com/mensdvice.html - cached - mail it - history

MJ FEATURE: Things You Didn't Know About Your Body

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 life · health · medicine · men · tips · women

http://www.mensjournal.com/feature/0508/healthTips.html - cached - mail it - history

AlterNet: Sex & Relationships: The High Cost of Manliness

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 gender · men · women

http://www.alternet.org/sex/41356/ - cached - mail it - history

Seed: The Media Assault on Male Body Image

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 culture · gender · health · men · relationships

http://www.seedmagazine.com/news/2006/09/the_media_assault_on_male_body.php - cached - mail it - history

The Straight Dope: Who gets the most pleasure from sex, the man or the woman?

If your ear itches, and you stick your finger in it to scratch the itch, which feels better, your finger or your ear?

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 men · sex · women

http://www.straightdope.com/classics/a3_224.html - cached - mail it - history

Playboy back in the nightclub business - U.S. Business - MSNBC.com

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 cool · culture · society · women · men

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15093574/ - cached - mail it - history

Go ahead, have more sex, not less - Newsday.com

There's no biological reason why a man can't carry a strong libido to his retirement party or even to his nursing home, according to David Rowland, sex expert and professor of psychology at Valparaiso University.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · men

http://www.newsday.com/news/health/la-he-sex16oct16,0,6999672.story?coll=ny-rangers-print&track=mostemailedlink - cached - mail it - history

Fruits, veggies may improve male fertility - Diet & Nutrition - MSNBC.com

precious swimmers

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 reproductive · men

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15389873/ - cached - mail it - history

Is Sex Necessary? - Forbes.com

so many good ones but i gotta go with "Seminal plasma contains zinc, calcium and other minerals shown to retard tooth decay. Since this is a family Web site, we will omit discussion of the mineral delivery system."

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 biology · exercise · health · men · research · sex · women

http://www.forbes.com/2003/10/08/cz_af_1008health.html - cached - mail it - history

Psychology Today: Why I Hate Beauty

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 culture · essay · interesting · marriage · men · psychology · relationships · sex · society · women

http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php?term=pto-20010701-000023&print=1 - cached - mail it - history

FOXNews.com - Drop in Testosterone Levels in U.S. Men, Study Finds - Health News | Current Health News | Medical News

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 hormones · men

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,225698,00.html - cached - mail it - history

Science & Technology at Scientific American.com: Potential Male Contraceptive Homes in on Testes

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · reproductive · men

http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?chanID=sa003&articleID=8B902651-E7F2-99DF-33DB2E49B0BFCC7A&ref=rss - cached - mail it - history

Twice as Nice - The Boston Globe

After a few weeks, Dan disappeared into a deposition from which he has yet to emerge, while Phil and I decided we would be better off as friends, and just like that, my rather delightful romantic dilemma was over almost as fast as it began.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 men · dating · relationships

http://www.boston.com/news/globe/magazine/articles/2006/10/29/twice_as_nice/ - cached - mail it - history

Proof that Internet porn prevents rape. - By Steven E. Landsburg - Slate Magazine

The experience of viewing porn on the Internet, in the privacy of one's own room, typically culminates in a slightly messier but far more satisfying experience—an experience that could plausibly tamp down some of the same aggressions that the pornus int

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · porn · society · men

http://www.slate.com/id/2152487/ - cached - mail it - history

Blogging by and about Authors » Archives » Sex a la World War II

Leder exposes the sexual and romantic escapades of Americans during WWII and emphasizes the importance of how this pivotal time revolutionized the way American men and women work, love, mate, and ultimately partner with one another.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · women · gay · life · relationships · men

http://bloggingauthors.com/2006/10/10/sex-a-la-world-war-ii/ - cached - mail it - history

Barbara Ellen: The The Very Boring Woman gene | Magazine | The Observer

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 gender · relationships · sex · men · women

http://observer.guardian.co.uk/magazine/story/0,,1932041,00.html - cached - mail it - history

Too Close for Comfort - New York Times

Until 100 years ago, most societies agreed that it was dangerously antisocial, even pathologically self-absorbed, to elevate marital affection and nuclear-family ties above commitments to neighbors, extended kin, civic duty and religion.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 culture · marriage · society · men · women

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/11/07/opinion/07coontz.html?ex=1320555600&en=0f1bdd77d7bfd3f1&ei=5090&partner=rssuserland&em... - cached - mail it - history

this is by us >> Guidelines for Platonic Friendship, by moreanonymous

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 dating · funny · men · relationships

http://www.thisisby.us/index.php/content/guidelines_for_platonic_friendship - cached - mail it - history

Flirting | Don't misunderestimate yourself | Economist.com

Men thought that the men they were shown were more attractive to women than they really were, and women thought the same of the women.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 dating · evolution · men · psychology · women · sex · science

http://www.economist.com/science/displaystory.cfm?story_id=8313758 - cached - mail it - history

UK scientists invent male 'pill' that can be taken hours before sex | the Daily Mail

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 men · drugs · research

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=418791&in_page_id=1770 - cached - mail it - history

Why Getting Married Kills Your Social Life

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 culture · marriage · men · psychology · relationships · social · women

http://nymag.com/nymetro/nightlife/sex/columns/mating/11646/ - cached - mail it - history

Rise of the Soft Man

Pathetic whore is much worse than whoa hey. But why does he reserve so much contempt for women who want "what men have always wanted" -- what he wanted not long ago? It sounds like what's really at stake here is power -- surprise! -- rather than sex.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 culture · dating · funny · gender · men · relationships · sex · feminism · word!

http://nymag.com/nymetro/nightlife/singles/features/3937/index.html - cached - mail it - history

Baumgardner_-_A_day_with_feminism_PDF.pdf (application/pdf Object)

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · culture · feminism · women · men · gay · society · essay

http://jan.ucc.nau.edu/hdh9/e-reserves/Baumgardner_-_A_day_with_feminism_PDF.pdf - cached - mail it - history

Feminist Daily News 12/5/2006: Planned Parenthood Holds Free EC Day Tomorrow

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 blogidea · rad · reproductive · women · men

http://www.feminist.org/news/newsbyte/uswirestory.asp?id=10041 - cached - mail it - history

Say My Name, Bitch

8. Using Cosmo as a sex bible. I dont know who comes up with half that shit, but I'm pretty sure they need counseling.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 blogs · dating · funny · men · sex · women

http://tweekerchick.blogspot.com/2006/11/so.html - cached - mail it - history

How feminism destroyed real men | the Daily Mail

My wife would have grown to loathe me for my fawning cowardice. She is a warrior and she needs to be with someone who is a match for her. Knowing the limits of what I will deal with in a relationship, I maintain my self-respect and, accordingly, gain hers

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 culture · feminism · gender · men · relationships · blogidea

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=398998&in_page_id=1879&in_page_id=1879&expand=tr... - cached - mail it - history

FOXNews.com - Abortion Bills Violate Men's Rights - Blog | Blogs | Popular Blogs | Video Blogs

Other feminists ask, "if the purpose is to protect women and not restrict abortion, why is there no comparable bill against coercing women into giving birth?"

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 abortion · feminism · men · women · reproductive

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,236144,00.html - cached - mail it - history

Feministing

But perhaps the most disturbing aspects of this feminism-ruined-“real”-sex line of thinking is that is presupposes that 1) you can’t like equality and hardcore fucking and 2) any man who likes to please women outside of said hardcore fucking is not

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 feminism · fucking · women · men

http://feministing.com/archives/006154.html - cached - mail it - history

Shakespeare's Sister

I think it was the first time that Mr. Shakes really understood down to his very bones that feminism is not something women use to find problems, but to address them. Feminism doesn't make me see problems that aren't there, but it certainly helps me find

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 feminism · gender · society · women · men · blogidea · word!

http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2006/12/men-are-babies.html - cached - mail it - history

Gosh, you’re so much more responsible than me; I guess I should be the boss of you at Pandagon

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 feminism · women · men

http://pandagon.net/2006/12/10/gosh-youre-so-much-more-responsible-than-me-i-guess-i-should-be-the-boss-of-you/ - cached - mail it - history

Gender Diagram

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 gender · sex · men · women

http://www.gendersanity.com/diagram.shtml - cached - mail it - history

MEET THE WHIMPSTER: THE MANIPULATIVE ASSHOLE IN SENSITIVE CLOTHING.

This male insecurity-as-manipulation thing really needs to be stopped. If you're a whimpster, consider yourself outed.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 culture · dating · funny · men

http://www.blacktable.com/elder040212.htm - cached - mail it - history

How to conquer feeling like a slut by being a Slut, Revenge of the Nice Guys® Edition at Pandagon

If it hadn’t been a threesome, he would have made up some other rule and retroactively enforced it on her so that he had something to hurt and punish her with.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · fucking · relationships · men · women · sex

http://pandagon.net/2006/12/18/how-to-conquer-feeling-like-a-slut-by-being-a-slut-revenge-of-the-nice-guys-edition/ - cached - mail it - history

Circumcised at 37: a personal story and a rebuke to the MRAs at Hugo Schwyzer

huh

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 men · interesting

http://hugoschwyzer.net/2006/10/11/circumcised-at-37-a-personal-story-and-a-rebuke-to-the-mras/ - cached - mail it - history

Masculism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 feminism · gender · men · masculism · blogidea

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masculism - cached - mail it - history

Parasite 'turns women into sex kittens'

"On the other hand, infected women tend to be more outgoing, friendly, more promiscuous, and are considered more attractive to men compared with non-infected controls.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 research · sex · women · men

http://www.news.com.au/story/0,23599,20975555-1242,00.html - cached - mail it - history

National news suddenly discovers rape is pretty damn traumatic at Pandagon

However, it’s telling that she feels the need to flatter the sensibilities of hypothetical male victims by telling them that their trauma is surely worse than that of a female victim or a gay victim.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 women · men · rape

http://pandagon.net/2006/12/27/national-news-suddenly-discovers-rape-is-pretty-damn-traumatic/ - cached - mail it - history

AlterNet: Sex & Relationships: Top 10 Sex and Relationships Stories of 2006

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 women · sex · men · relationships

http://www.alternet.org/sex/45828/ - cached - mail it - history

AlterNet: Sex & Relationships: Men Who Love Burgers and Loathe Sex

Welcome to the new breed of healthy young men who rate sex way beneath their other appetites. In this brave new world, girls are a pain, a disappointment, and rather dangerous to the soul.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · psychology · culture · women · men

http://alternet.org/sex/37642/ - cached - mail it - history

Venn diagrams, 2006 passages in the new year, in Society and Politics, on Figleaf's Real Adult Sex

Instead gender is better represented as a classic Venn diagram -- with two circles nearly overlapping, leaving only thumbnail slivers of uniqueness on either side.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · women · men · feminism

http://www.realadultsex.com/archives/2006/12/venn_diagrams_2006_passages_in_the_new_year.html - cached - mail it - history

Mad Melancholic Feminista: FOR PW: A Primer on Feminism

It doesn't take long to learn that being a girl is tantamount to be inferior, deficient and unworthy. Feminine traits are frivolous, grating, catty, vain, narcissistic, passive, bitchy . . . (this list was compiled by my students when I asked them what th

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · women · men · feminism · culture

http://melancholicfeminista.blogspot.com/2006/12/for-pw-primer-on-feminism.html - cached - mail it - history

AlterNet: Not Afraid of the F-Word: A Feminist in Command

I think that the one act of having sex should not burden you with the child for the rest of your life. That would be doing to men what making abortion criminal does to women.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · women · men · society · reproductive · feminism · abortion

http://www.alternet.org/story/46160/ - cached - mail it - history

It's a trans world | Salon Life

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 gay · women · men

http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/01/05/transgender/index_np.html?source=rss - cached - mail it - history

gapingvoid: "cartoons drawn on the back of business cards": the overachieving women manifesto

3. Ask yourself if you want the rest of your life to be exactly like the last six months. If the asnwer is yes, congratulations. If the answer is no, break up with him today. You are not going to make him change.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 dating · women · men

http://www.gapingvoid.com/Moveable_Type/archives/003598.html - cached - mail it - history

Why can’t you have a sense of humor about the hundreds of thousands of dead? at Pandagon

The entire conservative “revolution” gained followers by provoking emasculation fears in white men from coast to coast through talk radio and other methods and then telling them the cure for their emasculation fears is to stomp the feminine Democrats

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 women · men · civil · politics · feminism · fear

http://pandagon.net/2007/01/06/why-cant-you-have-a-sense-of-humor-about-the-hundreds-of-thousands-of-dead/ - cached - mail it - history

Alas, a blog » Blog Archive » What Causes Rape? Anatomy of a rape culture

i’d argue that these three things - Masculinity, Low Regard for Women, and Sex is Owned by Women - are the three main ingredients of that rape culture. And if we want to create a world without rape, finding ways to change those three things is where we

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 feminism · rape · society · men · word!

http://www.amptoons.com/blog/archives/2004/02/11/what-causes-rape-anatomy-of-a-rape-culture/ - cached - mail it - history

The unkindest cut | Salon Life

but even stranger because my newborn son was in the backseat howling because someone had just lopped off the tip of his penis, and my wife was holding him, weeping as though her soul was being ripped from her body, and my heart and throat and face felt cl

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 children · men · institutions

http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2007/01/09/pollack_circumcision/index.html - cached - mail it - history

Sexual Evolution: Big Condom Trouble

haven't seen all that many penises, but given the size of those who claimed to be well-endowed... let's just say a penis too big for a regular condom seemed like a "stretch" (HAH! Awful pun totally intended) totally agreed....

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · men · dicks

http://sexualevolution.blogspot.com/2007/01/big-condom-trouble.html - cached - mail it - history

c a r o l . q u e e n

People circumcise their little boys mostly to make them look “normal,” when the irony is, a truly normal penis is uncircumcised. That’s how they come from the factory, right? Full of nice nerve endings which you’ll want to play with your entire li

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 dicks · gender · men

http://www.carolqueen.com/pages/royal.htm - cached - mail it - history

Even in liberal California, men apparently don’t abandon privilege very often at Pandagon

Point taken, but there is one thing that a heterosexual man can do that is treated like a gigantic threat, and that’s willingly refuse male privilege.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · women · marriage · men · feminism

http://pandagon.net/2007/01/10/even-in-liberal-california-men-apparently-dont-abandon-privilege-very-often/ - cached - mail it - history

Sex, blokes and vasectomies - leg-crossing research - New Zealand, world, sport, business & entertainment news on Stuff.co.nz

It had also been suggested New Zealand men, after having children, were keen to take a turn at responsibility for contraception, and also to care for their partner.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 men · reproductive

http://www.stuff.co.nz/3930470a10.html - cached - mail it - history

Shakespeare's Sister

If you believe a woman has the right to choose with whom she has sex, then irrespective of what she's wearing, doing, drinking, or anything else, violating her against her will also has no excuse.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 rape · men · word! · blogidea

http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2007/01/im-petitioning-olympic-committee.html - cached - mail it - history

Index

This touched me in a way that very few movements have, it made me cry.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 rape · women · men · feminism

http://www.walkamileinhershoes.org/index.html - cached - mail it - history

I think this topic deserves its own post « The Silver Oak Leaf

Men are animals constantly seeking an immoral, dirty, practice. Women have to regulate how often men ‘get’ this dirtiness, and they’re open to failure no matter what. Too much and they’re whores, too little and they’re prudes.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 women · word! · sex · men · institutions

http://silveroakleaf.wordpress.com/2007/01/24/i-think-this-topic-deserves-its-own-post/ - cached - mail it - history

Joe. My. God.: B.A.R. Blasts AHF Lawsuit

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 pharmco · sex · gay · men · HIV

http://joemygod.blogspot.com/2007/01/bar-blasts-ahf-lawsuit.html - cached - mail it - history

I'mNotSorry.net: You can't always get what you want

Yes, a flighty dreamer can be a lot of fun in bed, but if you're looking for stability he's probably not a good choice no matter what that Lifetime movie implies.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · reproductive · blogidea · blogs · women · men

http://imnotsorrydotnet.blogspot.com/2007/01/you-cant-always-get-what-you-want.html - cached - mail it - history

Female orgasms are potentially a deadly shocker for men - MSN-Mainichi Daily News

Putting it a little crudely, if the intensity of a woman's orgasm was played through a man's brain, there's a danger that the shock to his system would kill him. That risk makes it impossible to experiment on a man at the moment.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 health · interesting · men · sex · women

http://mdn.mainichi-msn.co.jp/national/news/20070127p2a00m0na025000c.html - cached - mail it - history

Health News for Men

or is it a possible mother nature correcting the population control?

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 science · health · environment · research · men

http://www.takebackyourballs.net/ - cached - mail it - history

Feminist Allies: What is it About Men? Part One

In general, my expression of priveledge in this regard was having temper tantrums. I see this now as an expression of priveledge because boys and men aren't discouraged, in certain circumstances, from this type of behavior.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · women · men · relationships · institutions

http://feministallies.blogspot.com/2007/01/what-is-it-about-men-part-one.html - cached - mail it - history

News 8 Austin | 24 Hour Local News | TOP STORIES | Custody battle of the future

this will be interesting to watch how it plays out

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 women · reproductive · men · abortion · blogidea · interesting

http://www.news8austin.com/content/top_stories/default.asp?ArID=178440 - cached - mail it - history

Women without husbands: selfish bitches who refuse to make men happy at Pandagon

I would have been alone. And miserable. Marry a workaholic, or an inveterate creeper, or a narcissistic idiot, and the prowler will still rattle your front door knob, and you will still sleep alone. Marriage does not inoculate one to loneliness.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 women · marriage · men · feminism

http://pandagon.net/2007/02/01/women-without-husbands-selfish-bitches-who-refuse-to-make-men-happy/ - cached - mail it - history

U.S. workplace not family-oriented - Your Career - MSNBC.com

“The U.S. has been a proud leader in adopting laws that provide for equal opportunity in the workplace, but our work/family protections are among the worst,” Heymann said. “It’s time for a change.”

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 family · women · men · life

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/16907584/ - cached - mail it - history

Tiki Barber: The Exit Interview -- New York Magazine

oh yumdefuckingyum, ronde and tiki are f'n hot

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 men

http://nymag.com/news/sports/26287/index.html - cached - mail it - history

Cracks in the anti-abortion shell... that have been there all along, in Society and Politics, on Figleaf's Real Adult Sex

who hate women, who jack off to fantasies of women being forced to bear children as "the wages of sin," who want more-not-fewer women *and men* to become ill or die from sexually-transmitted, HPV-induced cervical or prostate cancer...

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 abortion · immunizations · women · men · religion

http://www.realadultsex.com/archives/2007/02/cracks_in_the_antiabortion_shell_that_have_been_th.html - cached - mail it - history

Being Amber Rhea » More words of wisdom

however, the ROOT problem is STILL -not- that movie; it is the guy's -entitlement-, it is what he has been taught by a lifetime of parental and societal messages -across the boards- that getting what he wants from a woman is his right and proper due (even

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 porn · women · word! · men · feminism · exploitation

http://amber.tangerinecs.com/viewentry.php?entry=1876 - cached - mail it - history

New York Blade Online

And even though I don't appreciate gay being equated with unmanly, if the ad makes people deal with the idea of men kissing each other, that has to represent some kind of progress, even if some of the people are snickering at us.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 gay · marketing · men

http://nyblade.com/blog/index.cfm?type=blog&start=1/30/07&end=2/6/07 - cached - mail it - history

The Fine Art of Free Speech and Dissent: Mirror, Mirror...

you want to be a pro-feminist man? A feminist man? Well then…stop telling women what to do. Stop telling them how to think, what to choose, how to live. Stop telling them who to fuck, where to fuck, how to fuck, when they can fuck, and if they can film

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 word! · women · feminism · sex · porn · men

http://renegadeevolution.blogspot.com/2007/02/mirror-mirror.html - cached - mail it - history

Playboy to Maxim, the sniveler’s journey at Pandagon

The solution to anxious masculinity is not to beg women to quit threatening you with equality, but to buck up and be brave. Define yourself for yourself instead of expect that your identity will come from how much you’re not a woman.

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 gender · masculism · men · women · feminism

http://pandagon.net/2007/02/10/playboy-to-maxim-the-snivelers-journey/ - cached - mail it - history

Research links vasectomy with higher dementia risk - Yahoo! News

hmmm, there could be a number of reasons for this, meaning those that chose a vasectomy could belong to a certain demographic that is prone to dementia perhaps? such as those with a known gentic disease or the allele for such who choose not to have childr

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 health · men · genetics · reproductive

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070213/hl_nm/vasectomy_dementia_dc - cached - mail it - history

If Men Could Menstruate « One Woman Army

Men would convince women that intercourse was more pleasurable at “that time of the month.” Lesbians would be said to fear blood and therefore life itself - though probably only because they needed a good menstruating man.(an oldie but goodie)

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 feminism · women · men · society

http://onewomanarmy.wordpress.com/2007/02/24/if-men-could-menstruate/ - cached - mail it - history

Town Hall columnist Doug Giles is convinced he’s not a homophobe at Pandagon

What Giles is boldly saying is that he doesn’t want to change his way of thinking about LGBT people. By being out we’re destroying his right to ignorance, and somehow forcing him to realize that his narrow small mind isn’t jibing with reality, so he

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 gay · women · men · society

http://pandagon.net/2007/02/26/town-hall-columnist-doug-giles-is-convinced-hes-not-a-homophobe/ - cached - mail it - history

Evil Slutopia: Cosmo thinks I'm a slut

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 blogidea · word! · women · sex · relationships · men

http://evilslutopia.blogspot.com/2007/02/cosmo.html - cached - mail it - history

Feminist Allies: Marriage and Privilege

The fact is that when you announce you're getting married, you get lots and lots of praise, in the form of formal-ish sorts of congratulations, but also in all sorts of other forms--tax breaks and more readily available health care are two that come immed

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 women · men · marriage · gay

http://feministallies.blogspot.com/2006/12/marriage-and-priviledge.html - cached - mail it - history

Teaching “yes”, “no”, and more on the tired old lie about male weakness at Hugo Schwyzer

The myth of male weakness becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy just as myths about female weakness do. If you tell a young woman that “girls can’t lift weights”, she might end up believing it. She might never pick up a barbell, never discover her very

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 sex · feminism · men · women

http://hugoschwyzer.net/2007/03/01/teaching-yes-no-and-more-on-the-tired-old-lie-about-male-weakness/ - cached - mail it - history

Study: Coming out doesn't equal more sex -- Queer Lesbian Gay News -- Gay.com

by sassywho 2007-03-11 20:31 blogidea · women · feminism · gay · men · society

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"Look Both Ways" | Salon Books

But the relevant distinction is not necessarily male vs. female. It's enigmatic and different (more appropriate for crush or fling material) vs. emotionally accessible and simpatico (more conducive to serious relationships, and despite her past experience

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the f-word - Suffering in Silence

So: few men are feminists because men don’t have access to the experiences that would cause them to become feminists. Therefore raising awareness is the way to go. But how to put the case forcefully enough?

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I Like My Sexism Like I Like My Hardwood Floors: Deeply Ingrained at Pandagon

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Feminist Allies: Maleness - One Side

Part of maleness can be a justification for being direct and blunt and not acknowledging the feelings of others.

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Violent Acres » Archives » Why Don’t Men Have a Birth Control Pill?

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Baby, baby, sweep me off my feet? Maybe not., in Relationships, on Figleaf's Real Adult Sex

But first of all partners, female *or male,* are not employees! If we imagine we're our employee's managers then we're already off on the wrong foot in our relationships. In fact, *by definition* partners don't manage partners!

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